Elaine,sounds like....this is a good time....to do some reading.
Of Hotmail.(as PZ has suggested)
To learn....of all the 'Options'(available to you/others).
When I 'install' any/all new software.........that's definitely the 1st thing I do!
To read 'what' it all about!(including what 'options' are...available...to be used)
Sure as hell,if this is not done.....'something' will go wrong...with said program!!!...all because the 'user' never took the time....to read it through thoroughly.
This is the biggest,most common mistake.......of all times........users NOT reading the 'fine print'!(within the Program they are trying to use)
There's is a HELP section....to help you out....IF you get stuck....in just about all software. (if NOT,there should be a "Readme.txt File"...to browse through,also)
With reading..comes knowledge......and with knowledge,comes experience.
In other words...no 'Dunce-hat'!...for you,IF you have done all the 'above'!